Ask any woman who she'd prefer, a stubborn man or a defensive one. She'll pick the stubborn man every time. A stubborn man stands his ground. A defensive man shows he has none.
Defensiveness is symptom of weakness. It tells her you cannot handle truth. It makes you reactive. It signals that your ego is in the driver’s seat. And women intuitively pick up on all of that.
She wants a man who can be challenged and stay composed.
Not a man who argues every point.
Not a man who over-explains himself.
Not a man who falls apart the moment his pride gets touched.
A confident disagreement is attractive. A defensive excuse is repulsive.
Your Next Move: Next time you get called out or feel criticized, don't flinch. Don't justify. Don't perform damage control like a politician caught lying. Pause. Breathe. Then ask yourself if there's truth in what she said. Strong men absorb impact. Weak men deflect it. Your ego doesn't need protection. Your integrity does.
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