Serious pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with. Many of these men know their addiction has gotten out of hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography.

My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last 4 years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all. His name is Sathiya Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction, how viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem, why safety, intimacy, and significance lie at the root of this addiction, why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don’t work, and 3 pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn.

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Sathiya Sam

My guest today is a gentleman I was just recently introduced to but his work is something that I know millions of men need to hear and get involved with.

His name is Sathiya Sam and he specializes in working with men, specifically as it relates to their addictive nature and habits. Over the past 4 years, he has created a program called DeepClean to help thousands of men stamp out their pornography addiction.

He is also the author The Last Relapse: Realize Your Potential, Reclaim Intimacy, and Resolve the Root Issues of Pornography Addiction.

This is a conversation that has needed to happen for a long time and I’m glad we’re able to bring it to you. I hope it helps.

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Show Highlights

• The barrier to entry to watch porn is much lower today
• Behavior changes that indicate an addiction
• How unmet needs can lead to viewing pornography
• Usually the side effects of masturbation are more negative than positive
• Negatively rewiring the brain through watching porn
• The downside of counting streaks
• Ability to focus and sit in silence is a super power in today’s society
• The importance of having a trusted person
• Using journaling and reflection to understand your thoughts and feelings
• Confession to yourself and others is an important step

Iron Council

I know that we’re on the topic of pornography today and since we’re bringing that up, you need to know that these are conversations that are taking place inside our exclusive brotherhood, The Iron Council.

When you band with us inside, you’re going to unlock access to the Breaking Porn channel inside the Iron Council including other channels including Health/Fitness, Hunting/Fishing, Faith, Entrepreneurship, Fatherhood, and dozens of other topics men are discussing on a daily basis.

All of these conversations are designed to inspire action and create results in your life. That’s the good news. The bad news is that we’re not currently open until December 15^th. So, for now, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil, watch a short video about what you’re getting yourself into, and drop your email in the form so you will be the first to be updated when we open up again in December.

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