For something that we do every single day, and something that has the power to change every aspect of our life, we sure don’t focus on, train, or develop it. And, that thing is conversation. Nothing great ever happened in your life without, first, a conversation – no promotions, no jobs, no clients, no dates, nothing.
My guest today, Payam Pakmanesh (known as “The Convo Guy”) is here to explain why and, more importantly, how we can build and develop our ability to communicate more effectively. We cover the proper principles of communication, Adlerian Psychology and how it helps you focus on what you can control, the “Zoom Flow” model for deeper connection, how to make yourself more approachable, and becoming aware of how others perceive you.
My guest today is Payam Pakmanesh, better known online as “The Convo Guy.” He is an expert in effective communication and works with men all over the world with how to be more influential, credible, and relatable to the people they care about.
After decades working in tech, sales, marketing, and software engineering, Payam turned his attention full-time to helping people become more confident and assertive with their words. He works with overthinkers, men trying to get more dates, execs trying to enlist others into their vision, and those simply trying to get out of their heads.
Gents, this is a sold topic and there aren’t as many people who are well-qualified to lead us through it that Payam.
If you’re being honest, you know there’s more in you than the way you’ve been showing up. You’ve got goals you haven’t met, promises you’ve broken to yourself, and a vision for your life that keeps getting pushed to “someday.” But a man’s life doesn’t change on someday. It changes when he steps into a circle of brothers who refuse to let him collapse into excuses and isolation. The Iron Council is that circle. It’s a band of driven, disciplined, tested men who will challenge you, sharpen you, and push you to become the husband, father, leader, and protector you keep telling yourself you want to be.And here’s the truth: another year is slipping away. You can watch it disappear like all the others—full of good intentions but half-built results—or you can draw a hard line and make a different choice. Join the Iron Council before the year ends, not because you need another program or motivation video, but because you know you were made for more. You feel it. It’s time to build unbreakable discipline, reclaim your ambition, and surround yourself with men who live by the same code. This is your moment to stop drifting and start forging the life you were meant to lead. Step in before the year closes. Your future demands it.
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