In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler tackles one of the most overlooked aspects of modern masculinity - male friendship. He starts by pointing out a harsh truth: most men today don’t have a single true friend they can lean on. They might have colleagues, drinking buddies, or gym partners, but few have a genuine band of brothers - men who challenge them, support them, and push them to become better.
During his annual hunting trip in Minnesota, Ryan reflects on how vital these relationships have been in his own life. Surrounded by ten other men, he notices the bond formed not through talk or small talk - but through shared effort, banter, and mutual respect. It’s here he breaks down five essential principles for building male friendships that last.
Building powerful male friendships isn’t about luck — it’s about intention. You have to create shared experiences, endure challenge, laugh together, and show up over time.
Ryan closes the episode by inviting men who want this kind of brotherhood but don’t know where to start to join The Iron Council, a community built on these very principles — accountability, discipline, and growth among men who refuse to settle for mediocrity.
If you’ve ever felt isolated or disconnected, this episode is your call to action. Brotherhood isn’t given — it’s built.
Listen to the full episode of Friday Field Notes with Ryan Michler, and start building your own band of brothers today.
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