Around this time of year, people begin to evaluate their life choices and circumstances. Relationships are no different. It’s a great to reflect on what is working well, what isn’t, and maybe even what is no longer worth pursuing. In fact, many people find themselves in break-ups, separation, and divorce on the tail-end of the holidays.
My guest today, Licensed Therapist, John Kim, joins me to talk about the different types of break-ups and breakdowns that occur in romantic relationships. But we also talk about common themes you see in ending relationships (and, how to avoid them), the differences between healthy and unhealthy love, how ruptures in a relationship can lead to some of the biggest relational breakthroughs, how to communicate what you need without coming across needy, obnoxious, or over-bearing, and so much more.
My guest today is licensed therapist, John Kim. John is a repeat guest because I and you listening appreciate his unique and interested perspectives into romantic relationships.
John goes by The Angry Therapist on social media and is the host of the popular podcast, The Angry Therapist Podcast. He is also the author of I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck, Single. On Purpose and his latest book, Break Up. On Purpose: A Catalyst for Growth.
John has been documenting his post-divorce journey and helping thousands of people all over the world navigate their own relationship challenges through is writing, books, podcast, and events.
What do you want this year? Really, what do you want?
If you’re like most men, you’ll probably say something like, “Make more money, have some fun, and be a better dad and husband.” There is nothing wrong with wanting those things but if that’s the extent of your effort in mapping out exactly what you want, you’re not likely to achieve it…or anything, for that matter.
That’s where our brotherhood, The Iron Council, comes into play. When you band with us, the first thing we’re going to teach you is how to clearly define your objectives – ones you can actually achieve, from there, we’re going to teach you how to map out and execute precise activities so you can see results fast, and, last, connect you with 1,000+ other men who are all doing the same work. These are men who will have your back, give you a kick in the pants if you need it, and be there when you need them.
We’re hosting a preview call on Monday, January 6th at 8:00pm ET and I want you on that call with me and the guys. Head to www.theironcouncil.com/preview.
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