What you think of yourself is directly correlated with the kind of man you are or will become. If you believe yourself to be a victim of circumstances beyond your control, you will be. If, alternatively, you believe the world is conspiring for your benefit, it will be. It is quite literally self-fulfilling prophesy.
My guest today, Jay Jairdullo, knows exactly what this is like after spending 25 years in law enforcement and now a college wrestling coach, he has had to redefine himself over and over again. Today, Jay and I talk about what he calls “false masculinity,” avoiding slipping back into old patterns, the importance of core values, overcoming the victimhood mentality, and keeping yourself and others off pedestals you don’t belong.
Jay is a retired police officer with the South Brunswick Police Department in New Jersey and now Assistant Wrestling Coach with Delaware Valley University. And, important to me, he is one of the best men I know and a good friend of mine.
We’ve seen each other in both highs and lows and had conversations about our own personal struggles that I won’t share here on this podcast. He is one of the most disciplined, committed, and loyal men you’ll ever meet or hear from. And, for the past 4 years has assisted hundreds of men who join our exclusive brotherhood, The Iron Council.
With all that is going on in the world, it is so crucial that men band together in groups to hold each other accountable and in check. Men are stronger when they’re together. In fact, we are built to operate in brotherhoods. But finding (or, building) that brotherhood could be a fulltime job if you allowed it to.
That’s why it’s so important you consider banding with us inside the Iron Council. We’re going to partner you up with men who are succeeding, men who are winning, and men who will hold you accountable to the goals and dreams you’re pursuing. If you’re ready to band with us and make the most of the next 90-days of your life, join us inside at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil.
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