It’s no secret that most men want to find love in life and someone they can partner with throughout life. But the reality is that far-fewer men are doing the work required than ever before. And, for those who are actively looking for love, many of them are floundering when it comes to approaching women and building interest that could potentially lead to a long-term relationship.
David Meessen is a man who has made it his life’s work to help men understand why they struggle and why society, at large, seems to be continually stacking the deck against the type of relationships the men listening to this podcast are looking for. Today we talk about why men seem to be so intimidated in approaching women, the skills (and, they are learnable skills) you can develop to have a more successful dating life, why “Progressive Desensitization” is such a valuable option in love and in life, the alarming statistics around romantic relationships and young men’s increasing aversion to them, and how radical honestly (not overly-agreeableness) is what creates attraction.
David Meessen is a certified Life & Executive Coach specializing in helping high-achieving men find meaningful, lasting relationships. Drawing from his personal journey through social anxiety and a failed marriage, David developed a practical, mindset-driven coaching system designed to empower busy professionals to overcome dating challenges and build genuine connections. His proven 4-step process has guided over 300 clients across more than 30 countries toward fulfilling partnerships.
With a social media following exceeding 2 million, David shares daily insights on dating, confidence, and communication through platforms like TikTok and Instagram. His approach emphasizes authenticity, emotional clarity, and effective communication over superficial tactics, distinguishing him from traditional dating coaches or your typical “pick-up” artist.
The Forge isn’t just an event—it’s a crucible. It’s where men are stripped of excuses, comfort, and distraction, and invited to face the raw truth of who they are. Hosted by Ryan Michler and Larry Hagner, two of the most trusted voices in masculine leadership, this experience is designed to challenge your body, sharpen your mind, and strengthen your spirit. You’ll train alongside other driven men, tackle real physical adversity, and learn time-tested principles of fatherhood, leadership, and legacy. The Forge is where your edges get tested—and where your mission gets clear.In a world full of noise, weak standards, and passive living, The Forge offers a rare space for deep brotherhood, purposeful growth, and meaningful challenge. You won’t just leave inspired—you’ll leave equipped. Whether you’re a father, a husband, or a man committed to becoming a better leader, this event is built to reignite your purpose and reconnect you to what truly matters. If you're ready to level up and lead with strength, clarity, and conviction, then The Forge is where you belong.
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