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June 27, 2025

The BBQ Test: How to Vet Your Band of Brothers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the crisis of male isolation, emphasizing the need for strong male connections. He introduces the "BBQ Test," a framework to evaluate potential brothers-in-arms based on five key questions: enjoyment, resilience, depth, principle, and capability. 

Michler challenges men to reject cultural lies about lone masculinity, urging them to build networks of virtuous men. He shares personal insights and offers the Iron Council as a resource for forging these bonds. Join Ryan to discover how to cultivate meaningful, growth-oriented relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

The Struggle of Male Connection
Importance of Frameworks and Networks
The BBQ Test Concept
Question 1 & 2: Enjoyment and Resilience
Question 3: Deep Thinker or Stooge
Question 4: Principled Man
Question 5: Capability
Evaluating Your Circle
The Iron Council Solution
Call to Action

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