I believe that most men know they’re leaving room on the table for personal and professional growth and while their diagnosis may be correct, the prescription is wrong. Most men seem to believe that if only their circumstances were different (their boss, their wife, their financial prosperity, etc.), their lives would be better. But the reality is a new circumstances, without a change you yourself, will only produce more of the same.
My guest today, Andrew Shaw, has made it his life’s work to help men break free from the patterns that are holding them back, many of them subconscious. Today, we talk about discipline, resilience, the importances of what he calls, “choice points,” the critical differences between taking fault and taking responsibility, and how many men have over-corrected against the attack on masculinity.
Andrew Shaw, BSc, is a mental resilience and emotional intelligence coach with a background in Coaching Science and additional training in counselling, nutrition, and therapy modalities. After overcoming personal struggles with stress and relationships, he transformed his life using proven, practical tools.For over 20 years, Shaw has guided hundreds of high-achieving professionals through his signature “High-Value Man” programs—online courses and a forthcoming 12-week intensive—focused on unshakable confidence, emotional control, mental resilience, and deeper relationships andrewshawbsc.com. He has amassed over 2,000,000 social media followers where he shares pragmatic advice shaped by both professional training and experience—as a parent, coach, and speaker—to empower men to lead with clarity and purpose.
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