Order of Man

Ryan Michler
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Order of Man

We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

  1. The Benefits of Brotherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    3D AGO

    The Benefits of Brotherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the vital role brotherhood plays in men’s lives. Drawing from personal struggles like divorce and alcohol abuse, he highlights five key benefits—belonging, usefulness, insight, support, and accountability—and warns of the isolation plaguing modern men. Ryan emphasizes how authentic male connections combat loneliness and foster growth, sharing candid stories and practical wisdom. He also introduces the Iron Council, his brotherhood initiative, inviting listeners to join. This discussion inspires men to build meaningful bonds and reclaim purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:07 - Introduction to Brotherhood 02:34 - The Cost of Isolation 07:27 - Benefit 1: Belonging 12:23 - Benefit 2: Usefulness 18:16 - Benefit 3: Insight 21:38 - Benefit 4: Support 27:42 - Benefit 5: Accountability 36:58 - Invitation to Iron Council 39:56 - Closing Call to Action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    41 min

  2. 5D AGO

    Finding Balance, Setting Boundaries, and Overcoming Struggles | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this episode of the Ask Me Anything series, Ryan and Kipp discuss the importance of consistency, overcoming personal struggles, and maintaining balance in life. They answer viewer questions on topics such as handling grief, setting boundaries with family, staying disciplined during busy seasons, and dealing with an unruly dog. They also share insights on how small, consistent actions lead to lasting change. Whether you’re looking for practical advice or motivation, this episode has something for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 – Introduction 02:45 – Reflecting on 10 years of Order of Man 09:25 – How to rest and enjoy without feeling guilty 19:32 – Dealing with grief and overcoming divorce 32:31 – Strategies to stay focused during busy seasons 42:24 – What books Ryan and Kipp are reading right now 55:35 – Talking to kids about drugs and addiction 60:11 – Setting boundaries with parents 01:07:54 – How to break tough news about a pet to a child Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1h 20m
  3. JOHN ELDREDGE | How a Man Can Truly Experience Jesus

    6D AGO

    JOHN ELDREDGE | How a Man Can Truly Experience Jesus

    Out of the millions of men I’ve worked with over the last 10 years, I’ve heard everything from a deep disdain and animosity towards God and Jesus to a rich and abiding love for His word. For me, I fall somewhere in the middle as I wrestle with my own relationship with Him and towards my faith and spirituality. And, that’s the reason I really wanted to talk with a huge influence in my life, John Eldredge. Today, John and I cover what faith and spirituality really look like, how the distraction era has hampered our ability to draw close to Christ, whether or not Church is necessary on the path of spirituality, why finding truth is challenging but worth the struggle, how the “Doctrine of Popular Culture” gets it all wrong and how, maybe for the first time ever, you can experience Jesus. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Exploring Spirituality and Religion Today (13:47) - Father-Son Relationships and Spirituality (20:43) - Fatherhood and Warrior Spirituality (29:15) - Seeking Purpose Beyond Self-Gratification (37:37) - The Masculine Journey (49:48) - Nurturing Individuality and Identity (01:01:42) - Connecting With Spirituality in Everyday Life (01:07:08) - Discovering the Ordinary Mystic   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1h 16m
  4. Lions and Hyenas | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    MAR 14

    Lions and Hyenas | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores a powerful metaphor for masculinity. Drawing from nature, he contrasts the virtuous, leadership-driven traits of lions with the deceptive, self-serving behaviors of hyenas. Through five key distinctions—leading vs. following, earning vs. taking, brotherhood vs. matriarchy, fearlessness vs. deceit, and protection vs. predation—Ryan challenges men to embody the lion’s strength and integrity. With personal anecdotes and bold insights, he urges listeners to reject parasitic tendencies and pursue a legacy of righteous living. Join Ryan as he unpacks this analogy and offers a path to purposeful manhood. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Lions and Hyenas   02:29 - Lions Lead, Hyenas Follow   04:57 - Lions Earn, Hyenas Take   07:18 - Brotherhood vs. Matriarchy   09:40 - Fearless Lions, Deceptive Hyenas   12:03 - Protection vs. Predation   13:30 - Choosing Your Path   15:45 - Iron Council Promotion   17:53 - Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    19 min
  5. Together for the Kids?, Overcomplicating the Uncomplicated, and Discounting Other People’s Success | ASK ME ANYTHING

    MAR 12

    Together for the Kids?, Overcomplicating the Uncomplicated, and Discounting Other People’s Success | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing listener questions on parenting, leadership, and self-improvement. They discuss whether staying together for the kids is truly the best choice, how men often overcomplicate simple solutions, and why discounting others' success is a losing mindset. Ryan also shares insights on leading former peers, navigating the role of a stepfather, and staying accountable within the Iron Council. Packed with practical advice and tough love, this episode challenges listeners to level up. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 04:48 – Together for the Kids? 13:02 – Overcomplicating the Uncomplicated 23:38 – The Power of Accountability & Battle Teams 26:59 – Leading Former Peers as a New Manager 33:54 – Navigating Fatherhood as a Stepfather 47:41 – Discounting Other People’s Success & Personal Growth 54:01 – Closing Thoughts & Upcoming Events Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    56 min
  6. JAMES SWANWICK | How to Break Your Alcohol Addiction For Good

    MAR 11

    JAMES SWANWICK | How to Break Your Alcohol Addiction For Good

    It’s been said that alcohol is the only drug that, if you don’t take it, people think something is wrong with you. And, I know firsthand what it’s like for alcohol use and abuse to take root in your life. My guest today, James Swanwick makes the case that there is nothing good that comes from drinking alcohol – even in moderation and on occasion. Today, we talk about how quickly it can compromise your quality of life, production, and relationships, why he views alcohol as nothing more than “Attractively Packaged Poison,” how you can adopt the alcohol-free lifestyle, the importance of addressing the internal root of addiction, and how facing your own insecurities, although uncomfortable can help you crack the code. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 00:24 - Ryan’s Alcohol Struggle and Recovery 01:24 - The Hidden Costs of Drinking 02:52 - Reclaiming Time and Energy 05:25 - Addressing Social Pressure to Drink 08:37 - Alcohol as a Cultural Myth 10:57 - Debunking Alcohol’s Health Benefits 14:09 - The Influence of Big Alcohol 15:59 - Genetic Predisposition to Alcohol 19:20 - Changing Habits, Changing Genes 22:56 - Finding Fulfillment Without Alcohol 25:55 - Starting the Hero’s Journey 28:47 - Building a Like-Minded Community 31:45 - Ryan’s Ongoing Journey 33:18 - Addiction as a Superpower? 37:06 - Balancing Life’s Pillars 40:55 - Leaning Into Personal Development 44:31 - James’s Emotional Breakthrough 48:50 - The Power of Community Support 51:06 - Where to Connect with James Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1 hr
  7. Why Every Man Must Advocate for Himself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    MAR 7

    Why Every Man Must Advocate for Himself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler discusses why every man must learn to advocate for himself. He explains how setting boundaries, communicating needs, and standing firm in convictions are essential for personal and professional success. Ryan challenges the belief that self-advocacy is selfish and presents compelling research on how men who stand up for themselves experience greater fulfillment, stronger relationships, and better health. He also shares practical steps for asserting oneself in all areas of life. Tune in to learn how to take control of your mission, command respect, and lead with confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:40 – No One is Coming to Save You 05:02 – Your Mission, Your Responsibility 09:51 – Your Strength Commands Respect 12:15 – Your Family and Community Need a Leader 17:09 – Weak Men Get Walked On, Strong Men Get Results 19:20 – Final Thoughts & Call to Action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    23 min
  8. Do I Have What it Takes, Everything in Excellence, and Doing the Right Things | ASK ME ANYTHING

    MAR 5

    Do I Have What it Takes, Everything in Excellence, and Doing the Right Things | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing questions from listeners on self-improvement, purpose, and resilience. They discuss the importance of discipline, finding passion, and navigating major life transitions like retirement. They also explore the impact of mindset on success, the dangers of victim mentality, and how small decisions can lead to lasting growth. Plus, Ryan shares a personal story about saying “yes” to unexpected opportunities. Tune in for another insightful and thought-provoking conversation. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Monday Mindset 04:35 – Zelensky, Trump, and Diplomacy 11:10 – The Impact of Screen Time on Kids 14:23 – Viewer Question: Am I Enough? 22:52 – Viewer Question: What is My Purpose? 29:48 – Viewer Question: How Do You Get Out of Bed Every Day? 39:26 – Viewer Question: Preparing for Retirement 45:52 – Viewer Question: How to Find Your Passion? 52:29 – Viewer Question: Am I Better Than Yesterday? 58:24 – Viewer Question: How Will I Be Remembered? 1:04:24 – Viewer Question: Are You Doing What You Should Be Doing? 1:10:53 – Viewer Question: What Battle Are You Fighting That Isn’t Yours? 1:15:00 – Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1h 21m
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    We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

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    • Creator
      Ryan Michler
    • Years Active
      2015 - 2025
    • Episodes
      1.4K
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      Copyright © Order of Man 2024
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