Trust is something all of us know we need to build in order to have influence with those we love and whom we’re called to lead. But it’s also incredibly difficult to build and even harder to repair once you’ve undermined it. And, unfortunately, as challenging as it is to build, it’s incredibly easy to tear apart never to be seen again.

My guest today is Dr. Henry Cloud, author of his latest book, Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken. We talk about trust being a learned skill, the process for repairing trust, 5 factors that drive the trust system, trust as a long game vs. a short game, and how trust fuels every single aspect of life.

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Dr. Henry Cloud

My Guest today is the one and only Dr. Henry Cloud. He is a New York Times Bestselling Author, psychologist, and highly sought-after leadership expert.

He coaches CEO’s, Fortune 500 companies, and executive teams all over the world. Among his books is his newest book, Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken where he teaches readers how to build trust and use it as a powerful tool for influencing others and building the life we dream of. And, I think you’re going to hear exactly why he’s sold over 20 million copies of his books. His messages are powerful, and useful. Apply them!

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Show Highlights

• The importance of having in-person conversations
• Creating a safe environment for those around us
• Five steps to building trust
• We need to know that people have our back
• The way we say things matters
• We need to become good at something
• Behave your way back into trust
• Breaking down trust barriers
• Building trust can take longer than we want it to
• Life is giving us a 360 review all the time…if we’re listening
• Be intentional with the patterns we develop

Iron Council

Finally, gentlemen, the week is here. On Thursday the 15^th, we open up our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. If you’re not familiar with what this is, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and get on the list to be notified as soon as we open up!

Inside the Iron Council, you’re going to get what thousands of men have been using – the tools for accountability, the framework to establishing and reaching goals, and the brotherhood of camaraderie men crave in an isolated world.

But if you are interested, you’ll need to sign up quickly because we’re only open for a very limited amount of time. This allows us to focus and pour heavily into the men who are new and just joining us to get them up to speed quickly and onto a Battle Team of 12 other men.

To get on the list to be notified for our Thursday opening, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil.

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